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Just Be Yourself ​ Actually, what do I mean by Be Yourself? It can be seen that in this short life, we look at others more than ourselves, or love to follow others, as a result of which we cannot know ourselves well. For example, many of us have some personal idols, we follow them the most and want to be like them. It will always be good but no, it could be bad or good. But we should pay more attention to our own personality. Now if you start following your idol in such a way that it affects your personality, I will never support it. The road of our life is very short, we have to stumble along the way. This is the law of life. Because life takes a zigzag path instead of following a straight line, we suffer a little as a result. Which is good in one way. Because if there was no night then how would we understand the value of day. This is one of the reasons why he chose the path of life. Because of which to survive in this way I have to be myself, that...
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Fundamentals of Feminism

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      Fundamentals of Feminism When I was a young girl, I wanted to be a free bird. Maybe till today, I wish for freedom the most, economically or in personal space. I feel it is one of the most basic requirements of a human being. But growing up, I realised we girls are somewhere, missing out on a lot of things.  As in?  The freedom to walk around empty roads after 10 p.m. without any hesitation or fear, the freedom  to have equal education, the freedom to wear whatever we want without any fear of getting harassed, we were missing out on it all. And most importantly, we never noticed it, we thought it was fine, we were supposed to be like that, we were supposed to get married before 18; we were supposed to do the chores, we were supposed not to have dreams; and we were supposed to maintain  patriarchal  social standards. But aren't we humans?  Aren't we supposed to have equal rights, emotions, and freedom ? I thought about it, a lot. The...
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Traffic jam

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  Introduction : Traffic is a huge problem in a country like Bangladesh where the population is huge compared to the amount land it possesses. It is becoming a hazard for the mass population to maintain a proper lifestyle due to the amount of time wasted to travel certain distances which should take way less time than it takes due to traffic jam. People of all aspects has been suffering from the pain of traffic jam.    The way people suffer from traffic jam commonly: In my opinion, the working class people suffers the most due to traffic jam as they cannot reach to their workplace on time and to reach on time they sacrifice their sleep by waking up early to depart for work. A distance of mere 30 minutes becomes 2 hours due to this traffic problems. Students heavily suffer from this too. They have to be on class at the designated time to attend the full lectures. The students who live far from their educational institutions often miss most the lectures due to this congesti...
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Life Before and After Facing the ISSB

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  Life Before and After Facing the ISSB Every child owns their different aims at the beginning of their  education life. After entering into a student life it may change into other aims at different times Because they don't have the proper knowledge about their aims. But when they are promoted into higher classes then  they get enough resources about their aims. After knowing about the aim, some students change their aims. Some want to be doctors, some want to be engineers, some want to be businessmen, some want to be chartered accountant, some want to be military personnel and so on. In our country, students  can fulfil their aims after completing the HSC exam. After completing the exam , they can sit for those examinations to admit themselves into that separate institution. If anyone wants to be a doctor, they will sit for the medical examination. If anyone wants to be an engineer, they will sit for the engineering universities and others will do the same thing t...
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Friends Are The Family We Choose

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Friends are the family we choose  Friends are the families we choose" is a sentiment that involves deeply with many people, highlighting the intense impact of friendships on our lives. In contrast to the family, where connections are bound by blood, friendships are built through shared experiences, mutual understanding, and emotional bonds. Sometimes, the same support, love, and care one expects from a family can be achieved through these relationships. In an increasingly interconnected yet isolating world, the role of friends as proxy families has become more essential, underscoring the idea that the essence of family extends beyond genetic ties.  It comes down to reflecting on your own thoughts about what makes a family. Different people have different perspectives on characteristics of family. Families provide emotional, financial, and social support to one another. And when our friends similarly provide us social and emotional support, we consider them our family.The struc...
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Remembering Kucchu: A Journey of Love and Loss

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      Saying goodbye to Kucchu, my beloved rabbit, has been one of the most heart-wrenching experiences of my life. From the moment he hopped into my life, he brought joy, companionship, and a unique kind of love that only a pet can offer.       I still remember the day Mom brought Kucchu home. He was a tiny bundle of chubby fur, timid yet curious, exploring his new surroundings with cautious hops. As he grew more comfortable, his personality blossomed. He had tons of energy, exploring every corner like a tiny fur hurricane. All the chewed-up rugs, erasers, and shoes turned into his toys, showing how curious he was.   My Kucchu                Those first nights were weird with him around. Waking up to his cold nose nudging my foot for affection, feeling his small body snuggled against me – those are memories I'll always treasure. My younger brother Talha gave him the name Kucchu. Basically, Kucchu was brought hom...
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Academic Depression & Anxiety

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For me these are the things that should be talked about more as most of the students suffer from depression & anxiety due to their academic life. I do suffer from these a lot. From childhood,I was a good student also studied from one of the reputed Institution of our city,my parents always had high hope from me.I tired my best to meet up their expectations but I failed at the crucial point of my life.I always wanted to be an engineer,after passing Hsc I started taking preparation for that.I had a dream Institution in my mind,I wanted to take enroll in that Institution. But unfortunately just for few marks difference I lost the opportunity to sit for the exam.I still remember the date and how I spent the night and the follwing days. When I got to know that I cannot even sit for the exam,my life became worthless for one moment.After that I went to  mental breakdown so much that I lost the determination from inside and lost confidence in me.I spent so many sleepless nights thinki...
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